It is august 15 today and I am sooooooooooooooooooo freaked out!....Im going to turn 23 in a couple of weeks!! SOMEBODY HELP ME!!... I remember when I was younger I couldnt wait for my birthday to come but as I grew older I dread the day as it comes closer. when I turned 22 I had a total break down. what is there to look forward to after this. I have already turned 18 then 21....whats next?...40?!?!? They tell me age is just a number, but that number becomes a prob when it keeps increasing. 

My grandparents, uncles and aunts, ALL expect me to get married soon. In the society they grew up in, women got married at a young age...my grandma got married when she was 14!! so imagine what she thinks of me turning 23 and not married yet. my mother had 4 children by the time she was 23 and only 2 of us survived.

This trully is a dilema!